I think as someone matures, the idea of love and relationship changes. When I was young, I thought that to love someone means to protect her, to keep her safe from harm and if somehow she got hurt or something, I would be sad and ‘scold’ myself for not preventing it from happening. As I got older, love became something like to be with that person 24/7. That included non-stop talking to her online and offline and to also understand her well enough to answer everything about her. As I grow and mature, love became something like a guardian angel to her and now finally, love to me is to like someone but to also allow her freedom to do what she likes to do (but of cos it must be within what I can tolerate), and to also see her as an equal and not as someone to please or to take care of. We are suppose to complement each other, not to serve the needs of each other.
I think my notion of love would still continue to change but as for now, I would stick to the method of wait and see for my current situation.
